Hi there! Iâm Samantha, and today I want to talk about something so many of us wrestle with: How do I know when I need support?
We all face challenges in lifeâsome big, some smallâand it’s normal to wonder when we should reach out for help. Whether itâs from a trusted friend, family member, or a professional, seeking support can feel daunting. But the truth is, asking for help is one of the strongest and healthiest things you can do for yourself and those around you.
Here are some signs it might be time to seek support:
Your Stress Feels Overwhelming
Stress is a normal part of life, but if itâs starting to feel unmanageableâimpacting your sleep, your relationships, or your ability to focusâit might be time to reach out. Stress can build up in ways we donât even notice until we feel ready to snap.
You Feel Stuck or Unsure
Have you been facing the same problems or emotions without seeing progress? Sometimes, having someone help you look at things from a different angle can make all the difference.
Youâre Struggling to Cope
If youâre finding it hard to bounce back from challenges, or if life feels heavier than usual, it might be a sign you need extra support. You donât have to face lifeâs difficulties alone.
Your Loved Ones Have Noticed Changes
Sometimes others see shifts in our mood or behavior that we may not notice ourselves. If someone you trust mentions that you donât seem like yourself, it could be worth exploring.
Youâre Avoiding Things You Once Enjoyed
When hobbies, social events, or even daily tasks start to feel like a burden, itâs time to check in with yourself. Losing interest in what once made you happy can signal that you might benefit from support.
You Feel Disconnected
If youâre feeling isolated, misunderstood, or like no one “gets it,” youâre not alone. Talking to someone who listens without judgment can be incredibly validating.
Youâre Ready for Growth
Seeking support isnât just about fixing problemsâitâs also about personal growth. If youâre feeling stuck but ready to take a step toward a brighter future, reaching out for guidance can be transformative.
What’s Your Next Step?
The decision to seek support is deeply personal, and itâs different for everyone. But hereâs what I want you to remember:
asking for help isnât a sign of weaknessâitâs a sign of strength.
To help you reflect, Iâve created a Self-Reflection Quiz over at LJ Learn. This simple, 10-question quiz can give you insight into your well-being and point you toward your next steps.
And if youâre ready to talk, I offer a free 30-minute consultation to discuss where youâre at and how I can help. You can book a session directly on my Calendly.
Letâs take this journey together.
With warmth,
Samantha
Wellness Advocate & Parent Coach
Texas LPC-Associate supervised by Sharon Bien, LPC-S